I've come across a rather interesting question. I was discussing said question with erinbear, and now I'll pose it for all of you in internet land. Is it possible to be in a long term relationship, yet still be attracted to someone else?

I suppose this is a question which is age old, but in my case, it goes hand in hand with so much more. A dream peaked my curiousity one morning. This leads to my second question. Is it possible to be best friends with a member of the opposite sex, and harbour unconscious feelings for years without them surfacing? And if or when these feelings do finally surface, is acting on them a death sentence for a friendship that had sustained itself for so long?

I look at him it the daylight, and he is my best friend, my center, as he has always been. Alone together, we are completely different people. a love of eachother tranformed into something physical, which should have never been, but cannot be erased. Now that these feelings have surfaced though, it feel as if I wouldn't want to go back. How long can I keep my best friend, and keep falling the way I am?