So I have a stalker...

Question to all you men out there.

What goes through your head?

When a woman blatantly ignores you and blows you off repeatedly, isn't this reason enough to stop calling her? Or would you think "boy, I bet you if I jump on a ferry to go see her, and phone her repeatedly from the ferry, she'll be thrilled to hear from me"?

In the past, it has been women who have suffered from labels such as "clingy" or "desperate" But the latest craze seems to be none other than that of "men who come on way too strong".

Since I've been old enough to date, I have been bombarded with phone calls, emails, the ever dreaded "drop-by" etc. Let me just put this out there. It is NEVER alright to phone a woman twenty times a day (no exaggeration needed). If she misses that many calls, SHE DOESN'T WANT TO TALK TO YOU!"

When did it become okay to make the person you want feel clausterphobic and creeped out? How did men get the idea that this type of behavior is acceptable? The same type of behavior that men themselves hate when done to them? And are there any women out there that actually like this type of overbearing attention?